here is a b♥x, a ♫♪ musical ♪♫ b♥x: and you probably do too

two years ago I knew barely nothing of sorrow or hurt or desperation, tho I thought I did - I can remember New Year's Eve vividly, it was the evening that I realised perhaps my marriage was just having a long and drawn out down moment of the up and down moments that marriages have, as do many long relationships, from which there would still be a recovery; I can remember the next day, quite happily doing the washing up, in The Big House, in The Village, and then noticing something that he wanted me to notice and my stomach lurching; a few months later my best friend told me that he loved me and I thought that that was what everything that had happened to me - that I had had happen, for I am responsible for my part - had been about all along and that it would all sort itself out in the fullness of time; and then he left and my world fell apart and I realised that I wasn't angry anymore; that when he went, somehow the anger went with him - but try as I might to sort it all out, his going was for ever; and then I tried so hard to tell him not to leave, that the grass wasn't greener, not to make the mistakes I made, not to cause or suffer from similar sorrows, but he didn't listen until it was too late, and even then he didn't listen to me; people learn their own lessons, don't they; you can't teach other people the things you learnt the hard way, can you; I know you might be *nodding* now, thinking that one day I will learn for myself the things you would teach me if you could; I'm so fed up with writing about how sad I am but if I don't say that my mind is a blank as I have nothing else to say or write about right now and I know I haven't for a long time, but it's all been so very overwhelming you see, and every single time I think that I'm just about starting to cope something else springs up and whacks me for six and there I am again sobbing; and it's not that I feel sorry for myself, because I don't - I did what I did and I know now things that I didn't know then and other people made their own choices along the way and there are things I will never understand and perhaps that is for the better; or perhaps it is not

I just want 2 know when I'm going 2 cheer up

love after love

The time will come when, with elation you will greet yourself arriving at your own door, in your own mirror and each will smile at the other's welcome, and say, sit here. Eat. You will love again the stranger who was your self. Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart to itself, to the stranger who has loved you all your life, whom you ignored for another, who knows you by heart. Take down the love letters from the bookshelf, the photographs, the desperate notes, peel your own image from the mirror. Sit. Feast on your life.

DEREK WALCOTT

feeling kinky?

Thank you for the days, those endless days, those sacred days you gave me. I’m thinking of the days - I won’t forget a single day, believe me. I bless the light, I bless the light that lights on you, believe me. And though you’re gone, you’re with me every single day, believe me. Days. I remember all my life. Days when you can’t see wrong from right. You took my life but then I knew that very soon you’d leave me. But it’s alright. Now I’m not frightened of this world believe me. I wish today could be tomorrow, the night is long it just brings sorrow, let it wait. And though you’re gone, you’re with me every single day - believe me.

Every single day. Believe me.

Henry W Longfellow

The rocky ledge runs far into the sea, and on its outer point, some miles away, the lighthouse lifts its massive masonry, A pillar of fire by night, of cloud by day. Even at this distance I can see the tides, Upheaving, break unheard along its base, A speechless wrath, that rises and subsides in the white tip and tremour of the face. And as the evening darkens, lo! how bright, through the deep purple of the twilight air, Beams forth the sudden radiance of its light, with strange, unearhly splendour in the glare! No one alone: from each projecting cape And perilous reef along the ocean's verge, Starts into life a dim, gigantic shape, Holding its lantern o'er the restless surge... The sea-bird wheeling round it, with the din of wings and winds and solitary cries, Blinded and maddened by the light within, Dashes himself against the glare, and dies. A new Prometheus, chained upon the rock, Still grasping in his hand the fire of love, it does not hear the cry, nor heed the shock, but hails the mariner with words of love. "Sail on!" it says: "Sail on, ye stately ships! And with your floating bridge the ocean span; Be mine to guard this light from all eclipse. Be yours to bring man neared unto man."

it's all right

Here comes the sun,
here comes the sun,
and I say it's all right.
Little darling, it's been
a long cold lonely winter.
Little darling, it feels like
years since it's been here.
Here comes the sun,
here comes the sun
and I say it's all right.
Little darling, the smiles
returning to the faces.
Little darling, it seems like
years since it's been here.
Here comes the sun,
here comes the sun
and I say it's all right.
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes...
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes...
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes...
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes...
Sun, sun, sun, here it comes...

Little darling, I feel that
ice is slowly melting.
Little darling, it seems like
years since it's been clear.
Here comes the sun,
here comes the sun,
and I say it's all right.
It's all right.

THE BEATLES

true minds

Let me not to the marriage of true minds admit impediments. Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds, or bends with the remover to remove:

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark that looks on tempests and is never shaken; it is the star to every wandering bark, whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks within his bending sickle's compass come: love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, but bears it out even to the edge of doom.

If this be error and upon me proved, I never writ, nor no man ever loved.

what would YOU do?

What would do think
if I sang out of tune,
Would you stand up
and walk out on me.
Lend me your ears
and I'll sing you a song,
And I'll try not to sing out of key.

I get by with a little help from my friends, I get high with a little help from my friends, I'm gonna try with a little help from my friends.

What do I do when my love is away? (Does it worry you to be alone?) How do I feel by the end of the day? (Are you sad because you're on your own?)

No, I get by with a little help from my friends, Mmm, I get high with a little help from my friends, Mmm, I'm gonna to try with a little help from my friends

Do you need anybody?
I need somebody to love.
Could it be anybody?
I want somebody to love.

Would you believe in a love at first sight? Yes I'm certain that it happens all the time. What do you see when you turn out the light? I can't tell you, but I know it's mine.

Oh... I get by
with a little help from my friends,
I'm gonna try
with a little help from my friends
I get high
with a little help from my friends
Yes, I get by
with a little help from my friends,
with a little help from my friends...

here is a b♥x, a ♫♪ musical ♪♫ b♥x

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tied down?

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paper scissors stone

fancy a game. . .

Henry W Longfellow

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it's all right

the cat's mother

money, money, money

true minds

what would YOU do?

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