and no, I'm not going to launch into The First Cut Is The Deepest, cos it's not - the cuts just get deeper and deeper every time; nor Don't It Makes My Brown Eyes Blue, cos the colour of your eyes (well, mine at least) doesn't change according to the state of the heart; neither am I going to sing The Mighty Swedes (that's Abba, to the uninitiated) One Of Us Is Crying
altho the latter is tempting. . .

oh, who cares? here we go:
of course, one of my other fave Abba songs, is The Day Before You Came, altho I think Pulp's Something Changed expresses the sentiment better. . .